SELECT
user1_id,
friend_like_page,
count(user1_friend) as friends_likes
-- t1.user1_id,
-- t1.user1_friend,
-- t1.friend_like_page
-- t2.page_id as friend_and_me_both_like_page
FROM
(select
a.user1_id,
a.user2_id as user1_friend ,
b.page_id as friend_like_page
from
(select user1_id,user2_id from leetcode.ex_1892_friendship
union -- can NOT use UNION ALL!
select user2_id as user1_id ,user1_id as user2_id from leetcode.ex_1892_friendship
) a
join (select * from leetcode.ex_1892_likes) b ON a.user2_id=b.user_id
) t1 -- * my freind like-page list
LEFT JOIN
(select * from leetcode.ex_1892_likes) t2
ON t1.user1_id = t2.user_id
and t1.friend_like_page = t2.page_id
-- ** check is my friend's like-page same with me
WHERE t2.page_id is null
group by user1_id,friend_like_page
;